After a very busy July, I’ve been thinking a lot about the whole work/life balance thing. Ask anyone you know how they’ve been and ‘busy’ or even ‘crazy busy’ seems to be the default answer, a badge of honour for the ambitious. I know it’s true for me!
We pack our schedules with work or self-imposed obligations, check our emails before we even get out of bed in the morning, and feel guilty, bored or useless in any moments of idleness. To me, finally being ‘busy’ came as a relief that my business was growing and my services were beginning to be in demand.
I took every opportunity that came my way, worked around the clock and didn’t take a day off in months. I pushed aside the things I really loved to do – from reading to blogging – as less important. And then I wondered why I felt burned out and uninspired…
The more I tried to endlessly multi-task, the more scattered and forgetful I became, and then I saw a quote that really resonated with me – “The answers you seek never come when the mind is busy, they come when the mind is still”.
Of course! Why do your best ideas always come when you’re in the shower, walking somewhere, mixing cake batter or about to fall asleep, just as you let go of your thoughts? Down time shouldn’t be a indulgence, it’s an absolute necessity to recharge creativity and inspiration!
I’ve gotta say, it was so nice to get back into the kitchen and bake something amazing after a month of throwing dinners together haphazardly or eating unhealthy take out when I was too busy to cook.
A few overripe bananas in the fruit bowl were the inspiration for this cake. I decided to caramelise them with brown sugar in the oven before adding them to the cake to really concentrate the flavour, and then added a big splash of spiced rum to the mixture for good measure. When the cake was cooked, I piled it high with more caramelised banana slices and oozy boozy salted caramel sauce. It looked and smelled incredible!
The cake itself is a winner, but the caramelised bananas and spiced rum gave it an extra dimension of flavour. It was super easy to make in the food processor with minimal washing up, and I loved it served warm with a scoop of ice cream or whipped cream, a perfect comforting dessert on a chilly winter night!
- 2 ripe bananas, peeled and roughly sliced
- 2 tablespoons brown sugar
- 60g salted butter, at room temperature
- 160g (3/4 cup) raw caster sugar
- 1 egg
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 50ml buttermilk
- 2 tablespoons spiced rum (optional)
- 112g (3/4 cup) self raising flour
- 1/4 teaspoon bicarb of soda
- 1 banana, extra, to decorate
- 3 tablespoons brown sugar
- 1 tablespoon water
- 1 tablespoon spiced rum